believe on self...................

Today, i have learnt that there is nothing, nobody else without our own self who can make us to the way of win, courage, success.
even the timewhich is going with us, or with which we are moving is not with us. it also leaves us on the road like a dust. bt if we have courage to move with time then we can be made king of the world by this time too.
it is only one or our self power which can make us to do any thing. we have not to be looser at any point.
I earler was in a thought that any body would help in the path, any body will help me in my fight or disputes or any thing. but i realized now thatonly i have to fight, only i and my courage will go and win. no body else will come.

my thought

earler i was in a belief that society makes a person, but i was wrong, a person's nature,type of profile, his/her ability, his/her attitude, etc makes him. and according to which he is called by any society.

suppose, if a person is hard working and intelligent then , his/her friends or collegues would also be of that kind, cause of his nature. i may be wrong some where on some else thoughts. but what i believe a person can also choose his society according to his own will and hard work towards any field. plz comment me if i am right or wrong according to u.

my thought

talking, thinking, discussing,planning,listening,sleeping,entertaning self, laughing are waste if nothing is done after these things.

meaning:- that these things are here to make us relaxed and get back to the work again. they remove our tension and tiredness but if we keep doing these work then these all will be called waste.
we have to and have to take the next step that is "do" the work or job assigned to us.
greetings:- love

Win small hurdels

today, i came to know that, if we try to win or solve small hurdle or disputes the we can win any big game or match.
today, i went to my elder's cousion brother's home. he and his wife were fighting on a small thing which was that my brother didn't tell about his daily routine to her wife. and this small thing reached to talks of divorce. she said i am going back to my home and i am not happy with your mom too.
my mom and father reached at their home, where the elder brothers of her came too there to solve the dispute. but no conclusion came afetr long talks of 3 hours. so they sit together again for five minutes as told to them by elders. then in those five minutes dispute got solved. how was that occur no body knows but divorce ended and they are again happy in their home.
so i learnt we should not be irresponsible about small things cause they are the roots of big problems. so through calm and understanding one can easily solve any problem.