believe on self...................

Today, i have learnt that there is nothing, nobody else without our own self who can make us to the way of win, courage, success.
even the timewhich is going with us, or with which we are moving is not with us. it also leaves us on the road like a dust. bt if we have courage to move with time then we can be made king of the world by this time too.
it is only one or our self power which can make us to do any thing. we have not to be looser at any point.
I earler was in a thought that any body would help in the path, any body will help me in my fight or disputes or any thing. but i realized now thatonly i have to fight, only i and my courage will go and win. no body else will come.

my thought

earler i was in a belief that society makes a person, but i was wrong, a person's nature,type of profile, his/her ability, his/her attitude, etc makes him. and according to which he is called by any society.

suppose, if a person is hard working and intelligent then , his/her friends or collegues would also be of that kind, cause of his nature. i may be wrong some where on some else thoughts. but what i believe a person can also choose his society according to his own will and hard work towards any field. plz comment me if i am right or wrong according to u.

my thought

talking, thinking, discussing,planning,listening,sleeping,entertaning self, laughing are waste if nothing is done after these things.

meaning:- that these things are here to make us relaxed and get back to the work again. they remove our tension and tiredness but if we keep doing these work then these all will be called waste.
we have to and have to take the next step that is "do" the work or job assigned to us.
greetings:- love

Win small hurdels

today, i came to know that, if we try to win or solve small hurdle or disputes the we can win any big game or match.
today, i went to my elder's cousion brother's home. he and his wife were fighting on a small thing which was that my brother didn't tell about his daily routine to her wife. and this small thing reached to talks of divorce. she said i am going back to my home and i am not happy with your mom too.
my mom and father reached at their home, where the elder brothers of her came too there to solve the dispute. but no conclusion came afetr long talks of 3 hours. so they sit together again for five minutes as told to them by elders. then in those five minutes dispute got solved. how was that occur no body knows but divorce ended and they are again happy in their home.
so i learnt we should not be irresponsible about small things cause they are the roots of big problems. so through calm and understanding one can easily solve any problem.

only for success of soul

only for success of soul.........................

hey, today i came to know that this world doesn't want anuthing except love. all are living for love and having in his/her/their arms. If i start from the small new born baby. it wants love of mother, cries for milk due to love. stays in her warm arms due to love. then baby comes in age of teens, needs direction to go in right direction leading to success and growth but all occurs due to love again, love is basic need behind all. again when adult age arrives need of a friend who can share feeling of love and anger, love is the solution of anger again. so love apperars in opposite sex. force himself towards that. now when marriage comes, all things happens, a good relation and a bond needs love only so that they can live together for whole life with love. when old age comes love is the only thing which an old age person finds and wants again, death for love, to be with soully with god, beloved or anybody else. whose thoughts always went in the mind of a person for whole life. so love is the sole purpose of life . so why to leave love in this beautiful life. we should open our hands and accept in any form. we should kiss it many times not one.

being happy is success

these days i am very happy cause i am understanding how to live life happily, i an using a funda that is just complete my daily work or the work assigned to me. i complete that and and enjoy after that. and i like this happiness in me. just loving work and friends. this is my funda. hope i can continue it for long.

and another thing, i try to be happy and smiling so my face is replying to me, my mind is more active. love you my god.

success for my dear friend

I am writing this in what sense i see my friend's behaviour. i don't know how is he acting now a days.
he is not doing anything just wasting his time in orkuting, chating, roaming here and there. just sleeping for 10-12 hours a day. i don't know why he is not trying to improving his life's standard. i don't want, that he should work according to me or work as i say. but i want him in working and moving mode. he is not even trying to work. i told him to work on improving his pronounciation and increasing vocabulary for english. I have told and made him understood about the condition of the competitive world. he don't even want to stay up to date about how. even his and his family condition is not so well. his father is retired, but i don't know why he don't want to do any job.
even if i see myself, i don't do much of work in a day. but still i believe and faith on me that i utilise some of my time for my work.
i don't know what should i tell him that he starts working and try to improve his life's style. he just want o spend time in chating with girls, (even i want this too) but i will do it later or side by side . actually he spend all of the time in thinking about the gals talks. he is my best friend , so i want him at the top of this whole world, i am happy with all his talks with gals. i am happy with all his funny talks. but i am angry when he doesn't do his work for earning his own life.
I have decided a thing that i should leave on his own way, so that he can alone decide what he wants. i now want him alone, so that he can think what he wants to do.

should i do some thing else. please tell me if u think i am wrong in my decision somewhere.