the simple word which came in my mind, is that for attaining success do any thing. means any type of efforts will work if it is done for achieving your own goal. fight for that, stay angry, break your own heart , live alone anything .
but keep in mind that, no other should get any type of hurt from that. it is quite confusing to understand my words. but think by giving you yur own time and think yourself at other place first. if it is ok then move like an elephant for your success. this is the simple way and i think some better ways are there too but will tel later